Dodging Fantasy, and walking into the reality!

I guess, the time has come in order for me to end it. It’s not healthy anymore. I would say, I am currently indignant with my marriage situation I am in, but the fact that it’s not working, I have to stop it. Several girls in this world really would like to have a lifetime partner. A prince that will save them from the distress of being single, and love that a girl ever wanted. A happy every after effect, that’s what we are looking for. However, facing the harsh reality, happily ever after is not for everyone, just like me. I guess, I expect too much, and I am craving for an affection from a guy but it was dreadful. Love that is one sided and no proof of getting back would only put me in too much pain. Being martyr is not an option for me. I’ve been doing this, like for 4 years of this marriage, but I am only hurting myself in this kind of set up. I can’t take the pain anymore, and being so negative toward myself caused me too much. A collateral damage for my act of denying that someday, somewhere, miracles would happen for us. However, what Nora Aunor’s state in one of her movies: “Walang himala, nasa tao ang himala!” (There is no miracle, only human do the miracles” I deceived myself from the illusion of miracles. A miracle that he would love me, and somehow forget that girl. But some guys do really choose what their heart felt, even breaking the law. So, I did say to myself “Okay, let’s end it. Move on from our own pace.” I wouldn’t deny that maybe at some point, I’ve done something wrong. This might be the reason; I never had been into a relationship, and I never had the chance to experience the boy-girl relationship, and that’s why ended up with nothing. Being single woman is the most appropriate for me. Yeah, I might be selfish in this kind of thinking, yet I am protecting myself from going to another relationship that would end into oblivion. Is it wrong to be born as NBCB? (No Boyfriend since Birth) I guess not. It is only that one’s heart cannot be altered once it loves someone else. I don’t care about what other people says, all that matter now is letting things in order to free everyone that is involve with this parental marriage. A marriage that keeps his mother in pain, my parents who always think about my feeling, and relatives who are concern about us. I guess, once I cut the string off, it would set everyone else free. He can marry the person he loves, and free me from tying into a doubtful future. This is for the best, “That’s what I am thinking about!”

As much as possible, I wouldn’t be so negative on this post, and even say something from this pain I am feeling now, but rather, I would like to share with you guys the positive wisdom I did get from this marriage.

  1. I did find that love is such a wonderful thing. It’s no wonder that some people are addict finding this one, as it makes you happy. It’s like every day is a beautiful day. It even gives you the positive vibes, putting a smile in your cheek, and looking forward seeing that someone in the morning.
  2. I did realize my weakness, and the person who I really am.
  3. I also see the super ego deep inside me, and that I don’t have the most control of it.

I guess, that’s the high light of positive marriage life I had. However, the pain and the stress I’ve gone through is something extraordinary. I never had a painful experience in my entire life than this one, and it then follow after the other. If you’re going to ask me either I will go with the same experience or not, I guess that’s enough. I would gladly accept the fact of being single ‘til the end. Yet, I am not closing any door since Allah (saw) always has something that He destined for us to do. To tell you the truth, I don’t really know how will I coop up with this thing, but I guess I just let time heal itself. Compared to the previews years, now, my heart is somewhat calmer than the previews. I am happy that my freedom will be returned to me, yet sad because He was my FIRST LOVE. A fairy tale that came so soon, and ended so soon. Life is always imperfect, but thanks God I am alive, and I have my family, and friends whose there no matter what.

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Business that is ECONOMICALLY affordable, and easy to SELL!

Hi Guys! Business is business. However, most of the time choosing the best business to let yourself get involved with is very crucial. I’ve been into some business, not many but few of them, in order to gain some experience as well to gain something. I’ve tried other networking business which you can see the good side of it, but sooner did I find out that: “Ah, it’s so expensive. My clients couldn’t afford the product itself”. There are those brand where you sell their products at higher rate which even you could not afford it. I usually brought myself in this kind of situation, where in, I am registering myself to a certain brand and then later on, I would realize: “OMG! I can’t have enough money to buy some of its product as to test it.” Usually, some clients would easily ask: “Is this product of yours really works or not?” Somehow, you as a seller, will be questioning yourself either the product you are selling is compatible with the need of your customer or not, since it’s not the typically product that you will see in some commercial ads. This become worsen if you don’t really know the product itself, and even didn’t test it as to try it. That’s the most dangerous one. Excuse me, if I am becoming anti-something with the other brand, but let’s face it; too expensive products will make your target clients to doubt either she/he is going to buy your products or not. Due to crisis today, one can expect that most of the people go in a practical thing that they can use in their daily living, and most convenient to themselves. Even I do, as much as I am concern, I would prefer something practical that I can buy for my money. I am already through with trying other networking that would only cause my pocket in a 0 balance state and sometimes it even goes down to negative, which is a bad sign in business.

Last few days ago, I browse into some businesses that would perfectly suite my current situation. I am working in my hometown, as well as managing our mini store. I was thinking that if only I could find a certain business that could relate with our sari-sari store, then it would be best. So far, I look into some of business yet nothing really matches with the wants I wanted. Most of them is not practical, and even hard enough to sell. Most probably it would cause our store to go down if I choose some of those products and networking online without second thoughts. From this experience, I do realize that diving into a business should be handled very carefully as to protect your investment. As my father always says, money is not something you will just pick up on the road and use, but it is something to be earned through your own effort, skill and ability. This is why, after going through a lot of searching through net I found ONE that really matches my interest. This business is called PLANET MOBILE BUSINESS CLUB.

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In this business, you will not have a hard time selling this product for it is already known in the market. Some of this products are shown below: (put some pictures below this)

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Why did I choose this? I don’t know to you guys, but the main reason I did choose this is that, it is economically affordable since it is already known in the market. It’s not hard to introduce it to people. If they want some testimonials and other thing they want to know, they could easily look at it from any sources. As for us, who owns a sari-sari store, it could also benefit us as most of the product in this business is something we usually buy in whole sale in order to re-sell it. In this kind of business, it is like hitting two birds with one stone.

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You can also visit their website through http://www.planetmobiletech.com.ph and even get a lot of information. You can also contact me through 09279940053 or email me at jomairahmulay@hotmail.com for any inquires. I will keep you posted in here about this business especially to those people who are visiting my site. Thank you and always take care of yourself, guys!